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LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS with BOB MARLEY

FROM THE DESK OF ELAINE PATTERSON

Clinical Hypnotherapist and NLP Practitioner

My clients ask all the time, what a healthy relationship feels and looks like.  And while they find it hard to put into words, Bob Marley has no troubles at all...



 ‘Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around.  You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more.  You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement.  They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself.  Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.  There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around.  You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are.  The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.  Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again.  Colours seem brighter and more brilliant.  Laughter seems part of your daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all.  A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face.  In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby.  Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you.  You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do.  Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon.  You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible.  You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.  You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end.  Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile.  Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life” Bob Marley. 

Bob Marley seems to get it right.  A relationship is about sharing and giving and more importantly being the real authentic you, so that you can be loved for who you really are.  Many women and men change to suit their mate and never really feel comfortable in their own skin.  Ultimately those relationships don’t last which turns out to be a good thing.  

Everyone deserves to be loved and cherished in that special way and they deserved to be loved for who they really are.  I specialise in helping every day normal people drop their old outdated rubbish beliefs about themselves and build a bigger brighter version of them.  It is easy when using hypnosis and if you would like to do some change work, please contact me to find out how this will work for you.  And remember you are a piece of the universal whole and when you reconnect with the ‘whole’ of who you are, magic happens.

Elaine Patterson



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